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Corey Smith's avatar

Ghosts are great listeners.

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Sherman Alexie's avatar

Hahahaha

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Magpie Mama's avatar

Your own Dia Los Muertos. I love the acceptance of grief and celebration at the same table. And that you're still here to wash the dishes. You did wash the dishes, no?

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Sherman Alexie's avatar

Yes, I helped set and clean the table!

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Kate Bradley's avatar

You transform grief with your words. Thank you for your gift to us.

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Sherman Alexie's avatar

Thank you, Kate.

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Kerry Kirking's avatar

Celtic tradition, similarly, cherishes the reality of “thin” times and places, situations in which the veil between this world and the other is especially permeable. In my life--and wonderful and short they are, these earthly sojourns of ours--some of the very best interactions have played out in those thin times and places.

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Sherman Alexie's avatar

That is a beautiful concept—the thin places. I spend a lot of time there!

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Kerry Kirking's avatar

It’s fruitful territory, and the company’s good!

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Rachel Hutcheson's avatar

This is gorgeous.

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Sherman Alexie's avatar

Thank you, Rachel.

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Annie's avatar

I just listened to your reading of the poem and it felt quite different from the written words, less plaintive. I appreciate both. Thank you, and for your prefatory comments about irony and dichotomy.

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Sherman Alexie's avatar

Thank you, Annie. I think my general good mood changed the reading. I think the poem is more plantive.

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Maria's avatar

Both sides of the hyphen—Perfect and beautiful. Happy thanksgiving to you, Diane and your boys.

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Sherman Alexie's avatar

Thank you, Maria! And Happy T to all of you.

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Joan DeMartin's avatar

Loved this. A thanks to you, Sherman.

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Sherman Alexie's avatar

Thank you, Joan.

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Reena Kapoor's avatar

Beautiful!

Here’s something that occurred to me...

Somewhere I adopted this tradition

To just gather to say simply thanks

For just this chance at life

Existing on this spinning sphere

Just now just here

A chance at existence when so much is inert

Just to know I was here

And so were you

And we knew and saw and held and loved

So only when we don’t forget to see,

To feel, to understand how this

unlikeliest of unlikely likelihoods came to pass

somehow in the din and the confusion and sadness

Then this will have became enough

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Sherman Alexie's avatar

"Unlikely likelihoods..."

Yes, this is all unlikely, isn't it?

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Joan DeMartin's avatar

It sure is.

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Reena Kapoor's avatar

Indeed. Non existence is the norm all around us.

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Travis DeVore's avatar

Thankful for Sherman Alexie. Hope you are having a great day with the family.

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Sherman Alexie's avatar

Thank you, Travis.

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Elena Solow's avatar

I think Joy Reid would love the poem too. She got in a lot of trouble for telling the real story of thanksgiving last night on msnbc. Give me a break.👿

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Sherman Alexie's avatar

She ired a few conservative news sources with the standard liberal take on Thanksgiving (and if you do a search on some of her old social media, you'll find she had plenty of opinions that are troubling to liberals). The "Thanksgiving is problematic" is an old argument where liberals and conservatives use Indians as a battleground. Meanwhile, every Indian I know—and I know hundreds—is celebrating Thanksgiving today. We Native-Americans successfully live on both sides of our hyphen.

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Reena Kapoor's avatar

Awesome. It’s a beautiful tradition even though like many traditions its origins are complicated. And Indians - from India- like me celebrate too. Grateful for so much including this country, warts and all.

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Sherman Alexie's avatar

As I like to joke, "The United States, no matter how awful it can be, is still in the top twenty of all countries."

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Reena Kapoor's avatar

Amen!

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Gaines Edward's avatar

What a great poem for the occasion. Acute, sharp and wonderfully beautiful and sad.

Thank you,

Shirley

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Sherman Alexie's avatar

Thank you, Shirley.

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Elena Solow's avatar

Loved it. Am sure .Buffy Sainte-Marie would too.🦃😷❤️‍🔥

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Sherman Alexie's avatar

I don't know how Buffy would feel. I met her once a few decades ago.

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Annie's avatar

Yes! Write more! It is the clear sharp images I find the most movibg

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Sherman Alexie's avatar

In my haste this morning, I didn't listen to the full recording! There is a kitchen noise in there. I think the Thanksgiving preparation pans-banging noise works!

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Annie's avatar

This is bittersweet and haunting. I would like to hear more of the stories, if they can be shared, the images of grief and yearning.

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Sherman Alexie's avatar

I will keep writing.

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